The Help, The Oscars® & The Questions (Part 1 of 2)

So once again Oscar’s night has come and gone and I’m left with a couple of thoughts that I’d like to share. Since I am apparently hardwired to pick up on certain social vibes from these events it just makes sense to use this space to posit my thoughts.

These events always tend to make a statement about us all. Beneath the hype, glitz and glamour looms evidence of our values, politics and even the fragility of both. We are confronted with things we perhaps thought we believed and still other issues we may have found ourselves ignoring wholeheartedly.

All the buzz this season had been around the film adaptation of Kathryn Stockett’s best-selling novel, The Help. I never thought The Help would win Best Picture; movies that deal with race issues –especially Black/White issues – no matter how much critical acclaim or box office success (also rare) never do. Don’t believe me? Check it out and get back to me. Now, let’s move on.

There was much discussion about the strong possibility of Best Actress and Best Supporting Actress nominees, Viola Davis and Octavia Spencer, respectively, winning two of the big three entertainment awards (Screen Actor’s Guild, Golden Globes and the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences).  Davis finished the run with only the SAG award for Best Actress while Spencer came away winning all three. She actually won four awards but since Americans tend to ignore what’s happening in other countries I figured it pointless to mention that she also won the British Academy of Film and Television Arts (BAFTA) award for the Best Supporting Actress category.

Those of you who know me or have read me before will not be surprised by this fact but I tend to notice things. Being the social/cultural critic and humorist I am, I feel it’s my duty to bring them to your attention. If you are the type who thinks entertainment is just entertainment, that politics and social critique ought not be comingled then you should probably stop reading. You will no doubt take offense to what I am about to suggest. If you are still reading then I will assume you are, to some degree, interested. Let me offer a couple observations. I don’t suggest these are negative or positive; merely observations … my observations.

Let’s begin at the beginning. Being a lover and student of comedy, I was excited to hear last September that Eddie Murphy was going to host the 84th Annual Academy Awards show. Imagine my surprise when, not three months later, he wasn’t going to host the show. Murphy pulled out after his friend and Tower Heist producer, Brett Ratner, resigned as the producer of the Academy Awards Show after making some pretty raunchy public remarks and topped it off with an anti-gay slur. It stands to reason that Murphy would step down since Ratner is the guy who bought him to the table; but, man, was I upset – relatively speaking, of course. Whatever the case, this highlights an example of politics or “political correctness” coming into play. Eddie Murphy, arguably a very capable host, through no fault of his own, is out and Billy Crystal, also a very capable host, is in. Mind you, I am not agreeing or disagreeing with any of this, I am just… observing.

Now let’s move to the undercurrent of tension surrounding The Help. I read some of the book and listened to most of it as I was often on the road between Washington, DC and Greensboro, NC during that time. Sidebar: If I can find a good unabridged audiobook, preferably read by the author, I can think of no more thought provoking a companion on long drives. If not read by the author, then a well-produced rendering with great voice actors is a wonderful experience. Such was the case with the audiobook version of The Help. In fact, I was first introduced to Octavia Spencer through the audiobook where she first embodied “Minny Jackson” (a well-deserved shout out goes to Bahni Turpin for her portrayal of “Aibileen Clark” on the audiobook). I found the story humorous, mildly disturbing, corny and oversimplified at times, deserving of being told yet entertaining throughout.

Never once did I think, “Why is a white woman telling this story?!” or “Who does she think she is?!” There were those who knocked the book for not being factual and a host of other things the author probably never set out to do. She set out to tell a fictional story her way, loosely based on factual events as a reference point, nestled in a turbulent time in America’s history. Something we all are at liberty to do should we so chose. Would we have felt better if Stockett had sided with the racist white women and told their story and justified their treatment of the domestic workers? Or how would we have felt if the story was ignored altogether? But I digress. Let’s get back to the Awards show.

And the Oscar goes to … Octavia Spencer”, said Christian Bale as he pointed to Ms. Spencer seated just below stage and to his right. A shocked Spencer covers her face with her hands and hugs and kisses cast mates on her way to the retrieve her Oscar. The crowd almost immediately erupts with applause … and … a standing ovation! For the best supporting actress?! Please know that I am taking nothing away from Ms. Spencer’s performance. She was masterful and I believed she was Minny but … a standing ovation for one of the earliest awards in the evening?! Why? Make your your seatbelt is securely fastened, I’m making a hard left turn here using a right-wing writer. I believe, in large part, white guilt is to blame. What is that you ask?

In the fifth chapter of his twenty year old, nationally best-selling book, The Content of Our Character: A New Vision of Race in America, conservative author Shelby Steele gave name to a phenomenon most Blacks have experienced and many whites have exhibited – White Guilt. Essentially, Steele asserts that Black American politics is rooted in “challenging” whites or any white power structure with the assumption they are racist until proven otherwise. So-called Black leaders work to keep “the pressure on”, to keep white folk “on the hook” for all of the issues that hold Blacks at a disadvantage. That type of “pressure” causes whites – and to some extent our institutions –  to live under threat of being called or considered racist, thus personally attaching individuals to the shame of America’s cruel and racist past. The need to do, say, advocate for or promote anything to the contrary is driven by what Steele refers to as White Guilt. It can manifest in something as mundane as an extraordinary tip at a restaurant to something all-encompassing like political policy, i.e., the civil rights act of 1964 or even affirmative action programs, according to Steele.

So when people started standing up to join in the ovation, what white person would have wanted to have been caught sitting down when the whole friggin’ room was on their feet applauding and cheering for this little known Black actress from Alabama (Racism Headquarters during the Civil Rights era) who played a maid in Mississippi (Racism Headquarters II)? Spencer wasn’t the first Black to win best supporting actress. Hell, she wasn’t even the first to win Best Supporting Actress for playing a maid. Hattie McDaniel holds both those distinctions from her Oscar win in 1939 … and you know she didn’t get a standing ovation! Fast forward fifty one years to 1990; Whoopie Goldberg wins for best supporting actress – no standing ovation; Jennifer Hudson wins the for the same in 2006 followed by, my homegirl, Mo’Nique in 2009 and neither of them were met with such a rousing standing “o”.

Why not?

Because none of the films for which they won their Oscar had characters that had to suffer racist white people or institutions, directly, for much of the movie in the movie. So, I contend, Steele’s “White Guilt” got a holiday. The only other standing ovation for a Black actress was given to Halle Berry for her 2001 Best Actress win for Monster’s Ball. On that same night Denzel Washington won for Best Actor and as he said during his acceptance remarks the Academy got “two birds with one night”. The first ever Black actress in the Academy’s almost seventy-five year history to win Best Actress and only the second Black actor to win Best Actor? In the same night?! White Guilt was working overtime because they both got a standing ovation that night!

(Continued on March 13, 2012)

3 thoughts on “The Help, The Oscars® & The Questions (Part 1 of 2)

  1. Wendell,

    As a keen observer of the social vibes and context of various media events, including blog entries by old friends I have known since we were 6, I offer the following observation on your writing–not a judgement, just an observation. In your obvious desire to get to your commentary about a relevant black-white issue, you exceeded the speed limit as you pressed the pedal to the metal on a gay-straight issue.You offered very little discussion regarding Murphy, who is well know for his anti-gay humor, and Ratner’s anti-gay faux-pas. Again, just observing, based on my knowledge of the same sex marriage debate in Maryland and California, but some of the most strident opposition came from, comes from the black Christian community. When do we have the discussion about when oppression and prejudice is OK and when it is not? It is a grievous sin and moral failing to discriminate based on skin color, but it is OK to do so based on sexual orientation? I want commentary, thought, and reflection from my friend, Wendell. Don’t skip over this. Give it your attention because I want to see Wendells Write give us the lowdown. And, yeah, I would have loved Eddie Murphy instead of Billy C.


  2. Rick,
    Glad to know you’re still out there, my friend! While I don’t disagree with you about the gay-straight issue, that wasn’t even on my radar at the time but it sounds like I should be waiting on your post on the gay-straight issue! Hopefully, part 2 will further/better explain my focus on this piece.

    I guess I am just so committed to the Black/White issue because so much of the history of this country was/is wrapped in the cloak of that conflict … I feel that if we ever get that relationship right, all the rest will fall in place. Is it gonna be easy? Hell no! But I believe it will be easier.

    I only mentioned Eddie as kind of a segue to show how I became interested in this particular Academy Awards show in the first place. Once I mentioned him and his hosting the show I figured I had to explain why he didn’t end up hosting for those readers who may not have known. It might surprise you that I wasn’t aiming at a Black/White issue where Murphy and Crystal were concerned – just finishing out the story of how Murphy was “out” and Crystal was “in”. In all honesty I really didn’t care who hosted and while I like Billy, we’ve seen it before … 9 times before … but he’s consistently good at that gig. But I agree Murphy could’ve been interesting.

    That said, perhaps you are right; maybe it is time I deal with the gay-straight issue on some level. Not sure I could do it justice. While there are similarities with the race issue and it is certainly an issue of humanity, it’s not “the same” as the race issue … it’s not “apples to apples” as some would have us to believe – but it’s not “apples to oranges” either. You’re right, the Black Church does figure interestingly on this issue, to say the least and that may be interesting to some.

    If I can alter a MLK quote slightly, “Inhumanity (Injustice) anywhere is a threat to humanity (justice) everywhere!

    Take care, my friend … by the way, will I see you in May? Hard to believe I ‘ve known your ass for 42 years!

    Peace & Love to you and yours,

  3. Hey Wendell!

    Very well written!

    I to would be interested in hearing YOUR take on the same sex marriage issue. I was just discussing this issue yesterday with a mutual friend of ours who happened to ask my opinion on the matter. The thing that caught my eye was the response of your friend of 42 years when he said, ” some of the most strident opposition came from, comes from the black Christian community” which I totally agree.

    One of the things we talked about in the discussion with my friend was the issue of “the black church” & it’s rigid stance on the subject matter. For me, it is sad to see “folk” who “love the Lord” have so much “judgement” in their hearts when it comes to another human being. I could get into this in more depth but I won’t. At least not right now. (smile)

    The quote you posted by Dr. Martin Luther King is poignant! I would like to leave you with the beginning of another quote: Judge Not…

    Peace & Abundant Blessings,
    L. ;~)

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